“Whoooaa!” I hollered to the little boy who careened around
the corner and tried to be-bop past me.
I reached out and scooped him into my arms. It was VBS and I was
patrolling the hallways, alert for opportunities just like this.
“Where are you supposed to be?” I asked.
He looked at me like I was a typical grownup asking one of those
typical crazy questions.
“I don’t know,” he explained. “You’re supposed to know that.”
He was right. So I helped him find his place.
Kids are smart and they know more than we give them credit for, but they also need to be told stuff, shown stuff, and helped down life’s pathway (or the church hallway). They need to hear our stories, feel our love, and be fed, clothed and sheltered.
And if we’re the grownups, we’re supposed to know how to do that.
I know it sounds pretty basic, but grownups can get pretty rattled and unsure of themselves. And we find out we’re not off the hook once our own kids are grown. Next are the grandkids. But not only that, I believe we adults need to address ourselves to the needs of all children.
The little boy said it plainly:
“You’re supposed to know that.”
“I don’t know,” he explained. “You’re supposed to know that.”
He was right. So I helped him find his place.
Kids are smart and they know more than we give them credit for, but they also need to be told stuff, shown stuff, and helped down life’s pathway (or the church hallway). They need to hear our stories, feel our love, and be fed, clothed and sheltered.
And if we’re the grownups, we’re supposed to know how to do that.
I know it sounds pretty basic, but grownups can get pretty rattled and unsure of themselves. And we find out we’re not off the hook once our own kids are grown. Next are the grandkids. But not only that, I believe we adults need to address ourselves to the needs of all children.
The little boy said it plainly:
“You’re supposed to know that.”












